IN MY OWN WORDS: - Life is one complex thing, humans are very complex beings. They tend to love and praise what favors them, to them that is the only thing that matters. First, the will be fast to judge you by appearance, regardless of your inner worth which is the real content of a being.
Mistake #1 the chose looks over worth. Secondly, they focus on their gains alone, what is there for me? And if they have nothing to gain then it ain't it they say? But I wonder where is the love? Thirdly, they are weak, weak enough to hate u without a reason, too weak that they gang up against others, they love plots and yet they have no great plans. They just want to pull down anything which doesn't favor them. Regardless of who it favors, if you say a man is not good to you. Do you know how many people he has being good to? Humans are so self centered that they fail to see the balance in life. Fourthly, they have no sense of good judgement, why did I say this? a. Because you weren't meant to expect much from others if u haven't give much to thyself first and to others around you and even when that has being done, you have no right to accuse another of not helping you. And you have no right to hate them or spread hate because they refused to help you. Sir! This is an offense against God, man and humanity itself, you are worst than those you are accusing. Fifth, to be a better person, expect less, love all, be kind in words and actions, help others and don't focus on who did not help u, stop being wise in your own eyes, stop observing people or trying to play the snitch that doesn't suit you. Oh my human, you are not as beautiful nor smart as you think. Keep love before and kindness within u, for that is the true definition of beauty. Speak less about others, do not gossip about things you know not and desist from deforming others character. Then you will be the human that God made you to be. Humility is not in your speech, it's in your thoughts when none is there to listen, how do you think about others, especially those that wronged u if at all they did wrong u? Don't help for personal gains, because the world will never be fair, I don't expect it. I give when and say no when I can't. Become strong and say no when you can't, become wise and help others when you can. We are humans and not God, don't put your heart into everything that they say or do, for they are so naive that they criticize and question even their maker when they don't have things their way. In my own words Klynch is my identity